Women are complex creatures
As usual this morning, I listened to my usual 15 to 20 minutes of Class 95.0 FM while preparing to go work. (basically preparing means sitting on my bed stoning, spending loads of time thinking of what to wear. I’ll then notice that there’s not enough time and randomly pick something safe. Lol. That’s my life.. sad.. I need to go shopping! Gals! *hint hint* )
Anyway, my main point is, the interesting banter between Glenn Ong and Flying Dutchman caught my attention today. It goes like this:
“Men don’t understand women because women’s voice is too complex for men’s brains to process.”
So there, an excuse for men to not understand women.
Well, an excuse is just an excuse.
I suppose a relationship is just like playing Jenga. You scrutinize one and other’s faults and often, you have many choices but usually, you would pick the one that is easiest to handle and place it on the top. As year’s go by, problems left over get harder to handle. It takes a lot of courage to actually choose a foundation or potentially deadly block, extract it and then balance it at the top.
One wrong move and KABISH! Everything’s gone. However, with some luck and some cautious handling, you succeed and of coz, both of you can stop and marvel at your masterpiece.
I suppose women don’t understand men too. You say that women talk too much. I’ll tell you, men talk too little. (those who talk more are considered SNAG. Mwahaha.) We women are anxious creatures, when faced with a problem, we can talk non-stop. Showering you will any possible solution that we could think of.
A message to the men. When we raise a problem to you, its not because we want to pressurize you. Its because we care and we want to solve it WITH you.
So don’t hide behind your computer monitors anymore. We think too much if you give us too much silence to work with. You probably won’t want to marry a bald woman as wife too, so don’t make us pull them out in frustration. Shut us up if you want, but we still expect an answer. Be it good or bad, it’s the least we’re entitled to.
I’ll say:
Women don’t understand men coz women can’t decipher brainwaves. So men.. start talking.
Anyway, my main point is, the interesting banter between Glenn Ong and Flying Dutchman caught my attention today. It goes like this:
“Men don’t understand women because women’s voice is too complex for men’s brains to process.”
So there, an excuse for men to not understand women.
Well, an excuse is just an excuse.
I suppose a relationship is just like playing Jenga. You scrutinize one and other’s faults and often, you have many choices but usually, you would pick the one that is easiest to handle and place it on the top. As year’s go by, problems left over get harder to handle. It takes a lot of courage to actually choose a foundation or potentially deadly block, extract it and then balance it at the top.
One wrong move and KABISH! Everything’s gone. However, with some luck and some cautious handling, you succeed and of coz, both of you can stop and marvel at your masterpiece.
I suppose women don’t understand men too. You say that women talk too much. I’ll tell you, men talk too little. (those who talk more are considered SNAG. Mwahaha.) We women are anxious creatures, when faced with a problem, we can talk non-stop. Showering you will any possible solution that we could think of.
A message to the men. When we raise a problem to you, its not because we want to pressurize you. Its because we care and we want to solve it WITH you.
So don’t hide behind your computer monitors anymore. We think too much if you give us too much silence to work with. You probably won’t want to marry a bald woman as wife too, so don’t make us pull them out in frustration. Shut us up if you want, but we still expect an answer. Be it good or bad, it’s the least we’re entitled to.
I’ll say:
Women don’t understand men coz women can’t decipher brainwaves. So men.. start talking.

4 Comments:
Woah! Cool entry babe! i so totally agree with you. I love talking things out w my partner too, or else there will nvr be that deeper level of understanding. yeah, men juz love to give excuses. *bleugh* Altho i love to talk a lot but sometimes wat i realli want is not juz for u to listen but also to let me noe how u realli think and feel. Communicationis the key.N thatz how we embark on a relationship that can be embedded on a deeper level.
Yay yay! Agree w u ger! keke =)Esp ur last line...wacky!
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Princess Fiona, at 12:27 pm
lol... haha... a thinly veiled hint to someone? but i agree lar... most guys juz speak too little den complain we speak too much... buti guess both parties need to understand each other's communication mothods lor... i like ur jenga theory though... :P
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AnGeLiNG, at 2:06 pm
Actually my boyfriend talks more than I do. LOL! Everyone (our common friends) complains to me that he's too talkative.
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Anonymous, at 12:15 am
Hey!! I think u can start writing the local version of "Why men dun listen and why women cant read maps!!" Ur analogies damn funny, yet apt! Hahaha.. and I think u're showing ur humour more n more now! :)
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bitch, at 9:55 pm
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